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Red Flags: Recognizing Rude Behavior

L.M. Hosler

I find it hard to like people with aggressive personalities or rude personalities. I have often worked with people like that. I tried to steer clear of them. Some of them would do just about anything for money and position. Some of them intimidate me. The smallest thing can set them off and the next thing they are screaming and attacking you. Then there’s the rude people. They can be really nasty people. Recently, I went on a short trip with a friend who brought another friend. Her name was Karen, if you get my drift. Nothing pleased her about anything. The room wasn’t good enough. She demanded to see the manager. The food didn’t please her. She made the whole trip a bad experience for the other three of us. Everyone was on edge any time she was near. She won’t be going on any more trips with us.

I saw many rude and aggressive people in the years I worked in restaurants. They made the job hard. One instance, was when a woman almost came across the counter at me. Later, I did find out she had a mental condition and was off her medications.

Most people with aggressive personalities are harmless but there are those who have a streak of violence. I view aggressiveness with caution.

Aggressive and rude people raise a big red flag with me.

Daily writing prompt
What personality trait in people raises a red flag with you?
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Exploring Scotland: An Ideal Week of Castle Tours

L.M. Hosler

I love English, Ireland and Scottish history. There’s so many great stories in that history. History of battles and countries at war. There’s stories of kings, queens and princesses. Some of those stories are sad and heartbreaking, others are inspiring. I particularly liked the stories of Margaret, and her granddaughter Mary Queen of Scots. Both of them had tragic endings. But one thing the royalty of those countries all had was beautiful castles.

I would love to spend a week traveling through any of them. But, I think Scotland would be my first choice to visit. Perhaps, because I know someone who did visit Scotland and I was impressed with their photos they shared.

My ideal week would be spent in Scotland at a luxury hotel. I would choose The Balmoral Hotel in Edinburgh, the capital of Scotland. I would then plan to visit the Royal Residence of Balmoral which the British Royals own. The Balmoral royal estate was bought by Queen Victoria and Prince Albert in 1852. The public can now tour the royal castle.

The rest of my week I would spend touring other old castles with rich histories. I would enjoy spending some time outdoors at a seashore in Scotland. There are marvelous castles and museums to visit in Scotland.

Some of the museums I would enjoy visiting during my week in Scotland include the following.

  • National Museum of Scotland in Edinburgh
  • Edinburgh Castle
  • National War Museum of Scotland
  • Glenfinna Monument in the Scottish Highlands
  • Stirling Castle where the Stuarts lived at times

Stirling Castle Scotland https://flickr.com/photos

So this is my idea of an ideal week spent soaking up Scottish history in Edinburgh, Scotland. Visiting old castles and enjoying good Scottish food and beautiful green hills and gardens. Too bad it can only be for one week.

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Describe your ideal week.
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Riley Gaines

L.M. Hosler

I know very little about professional athletes. I am not into football, golf, basketball or any other sports. If I had to choose a sport to follow it would be baseball. I also don’t watch much of the Olympics although I can enjoy figure skating and gymnastics. Actually, I would rather read a good book, have some chocolate chip cookies and chips. Television and sports for many of us have ended with some of the athletes kneeling and disrespecting our country.

But if I had to choose a professional athlete that I respect it would be Riley Gaines, the swimmer. And it’s not her swimming ability that I respect and admire. I admire her for her courage. She raises awareness about the unfairness faced by women in sports. These are women who have spent their lives training in their sport. Now, they have to compete with men who aren’t capable of competing against other men. During the last Olympics I watched a man punch a woman in the face and take the gold medal. I stand with Riley Gaines against men competing in women’s sports.

Riley Gaines has spent the last several years advocating for women’s sports to be for women only. I respect her because this hasn’t been an easy position for her to take in a WOKE society.

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Name the professional athletes you respect the most and why.
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Why I Chose Florida: A Personal Travel Story

L.M. Hosler

In 2004 I had the opportunity to move to Florida. Friends invited me to come stay with them and stay as long as I wanted to. At that time I was in a relationship I no longer wanted to be in. I had a job that I was not happy with. I was working as a waitress in a local restaurant. I realized that working in the public gave the other person many opportunities. He could and did harass and embarrass me every day at my place of employment. I chose not to face that humiliation. I packed a few of my belongings and moved about twelve hundred miles away to Florida. A friend from Florida flew up to meet me and together we drove to Florida.

I loved Florida. I have heard people complain about the humidity in Florida but that was no problem for me. I enjoyed the smell of the Gulf of Mexico, the beautiful white sand and the sea breeze every morning. I was near a beach, so we usually had a, nice breeze in the mornings and evenings. There were a lot of new southern foods to sample and I learned to make Jambalaya. I loved that I was able to go the beach when I wanted to. We also traveled to neighboring states Mississippi and Alabama. It was all new and exciting for me.

Nevertheless, I had trouble finding a job in Florida. I didn’t know very many people so I didn’t have connections. I couldn’t even find work at a Wal-Mart store and there were several in the immediate area. I finally ended up working as a waitress again. Then eventually I found an office type job. But I wasn’t making enough money to support myself. So I lived with a roommate. I just happened to get into a relationship with him.

My family was twelve hundred miles away so after six years I returned home to be with them. The person I was living with had a very dysfunctional family. I decided I didn’t want to be part of the craziness I was witnessing. That family would make a good book which I may write someday. I do stay friends with all of them but at a distance for my own sanity.

So Florida is as far as I have traveled from my home state of Pennsylvania. I loved Florida and I did go back to visit a few years ago. But I plan on staying near my family in the future other than short trips.

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Share a story about the furthest you’ve ever traveled from home.
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The Heart of the Home: Designing a Dream Kitchen

L.M. Hosler

My ideal home would be very much like my home that I presently own. I love my home. It’s a large four bedroom home with a wrap around porch. And I really enjoy that porch. In the mornings, I can spend time reading on the shaded side. In the evenings, I can move to the other side to enjoy the shade. It’s old, over one hundred years old now. I love older homes. They have character that new homes lack. They bring back memories of growing up in a home akin to the one I now live in.

Of course, my home isn’t perfect and being an older home needs some repairs. But it is large and spacious and has everything I need. Still, I would make some changes to make it ideal.

Changes I would make

I would like to have a bathroom downstairs and move my laundry upstairs from the basement. I know there will come a time when stairs become a problem. My upstairs needs painting and some updating, ceiling fans would be nice. I would also add bigger mini splits for air conditioning upstairs. I would like to update the bathroom upstairs. But too many modern changes would lose the old house charm.

The Kitchen

They say the kitchen is the heart of the home and I believe that to be true. The kitchen is large but can use some modifications. A large modern kitchen mixed with an open design into the dining area would be nice. Opening the wall into the dining room, a counter looking into the dining area would work. When I first moved into this home, the kitchen was nothing but a huge room with a single sink. Thanks to my sons, we have modernized the kitchen. I now have two sinks, counter space, and a dishwasher. Opening up that wall into the dining area would be nice addition.

Family in the kitchen praying before eating

Family

An ideal home would include family gatherings like the gatherings which I grew up with. The family would get together regularly to enjoy meals, cookouts and family fun. The children would be out in the evening catching fireflies. The adults would enjoy sitting on the porch with some wine or coffee sharing news and stories of the past. This is what my parents did when I was a child. Someday, hopefully my home will truly be idealistic.

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What does your ideal home look like?
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Embracing the Joys of Elder Care

L.M. Hosler

I am a caregiver for the elderly. I help them stay in their own homes. I do things for them that they are unable to do. I help with their personal care, medicines and keeping their homes clean and safe. Many have become lost in the depths of dementia and lose their memories of who they are.

It brings tears of joy to my eyes when they can remember happier times. The smiles on their faces make me shed tears of joy. So many of those with dementia have families that have forgotten about them. Some end up in almost total isolation because it becomes difficult to have conversations or deal with their childlike personalities. I love it when I can make their day a wee bit happier.

On the other hand I shed tears of sadness when it comes time to say that final goodbye. I spent six years with one lady until her family put her in a nursing home. Many tears were shed when I had to say goodbye. The first lady I took care of suffered a heart attack and only lived for three days afterwards. This broke my heart and I shed many tears of sadness.

Being a caregiver is filled with joy. There are good days and bad days. The good days are full of happiness, smiles and tears of joy. I love what I do.

Daily writing prompt
What brings a tear of joy to your eye?
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Mastering Your Budget: Essential Tips for Financial Health

L.M. Hosler

I called and interviewed my friend over the phone.

My friend is a very busy person, involved with her church and various other organizations. She has been the treasurer of one or more of those organizations. She also volunteers to teach others responsible money management.

Q: What do you think is the most important part of people handling their finances?

A: Starting with a good budget. People should start by having a budget that covers their basic needs. Housing, food, utilities are basic needs.

Q: Where do you start with a budget?

A: Start with basic needs. Then, create an emergency fund. Put in enough money to cover living expenses for three months.

Q: What about money for fun and entertainment?

A: After the emergency fund has been fully funded, then you can put money aside for other purposes. Vacations, eating out, movies, whatever it is that you want to do for fun.

Q: What are some things that should be cut out of anyone’s budget or at least reduced.

A: Well most people don’t like to hear this but there are many expenses that can be reduced. Things like cigarettes, tattoos, alcohol are a few things that are not necessary for survival.

Q: What success have people had after listening to your advice.

A: Quite a few people have come back to me. They thanked me for helping them get their finances in order. One couple finally managed to buy an older home of their own which was their main goal.

Q: Any final words of advice for those having financial difficulties.

A: Get started as soon as possible to take control of your finances and life will be much better. Pay yourself first by saving even a little bit every week. Trust in God and faith are also important.

Daily writing prompt
Interview someone — a friend, another blogger, your mother, the mailman — and write a post based on their responses.
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Embracing Change: My Journey Through Anxieties and Hobbies

L.M. Hosler

Right now I feel wonderful about the great weather we are having. It’s nice and cool. The type of day that you feel good and energetic. So I have been busy cleaning my house this morning and I really dislike cleaning. It is amazing how good weather can affect your overall mood and attitude.

I am also feeling anxious because I have been unable to find regular work. I work as a private care giver and I lost three of my clients to nursing homes recently. I found a few jobs that didn’t last very long. My client either passed away or had to be put in a nursing home. But on the other hand I am enjoying retirement and time for hobbies and social activities. I can concentrate on writing and creating quilts and crafts more. I have always looked ahead to having time to enjoy those hobbies. I especially look ahead to Thursdays when I get together with friends to play cards.

I am also feeling like I need to make myself go to the gym more. I know it’s good for me but sometimes it is hard to be motivated. I am not sure just how to get myself motivated to go exercise.

But it feels like today is going to be a great day, no matter what I do.

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How are you feeling right now?
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Embracing Evening Bliss: My Favorite Time of Day

L.M. Hosler

I love mornings when I don’t have to rush getting out of bed. I don’t have to rush off to do a million things that need to be done. But every day I look ahead to when the craziness of each day turns into enjoying a relaxing evening.

But my favorite time of the day is evenings. Supper has been enjoyed, kitchen cleaned up and dishes put away. Then it’s time to sit with a cup of tea or a soda on the front porch. In the summer, the heat lifts a little bit and children are sometimes catching lighting bugs. I relax to the sound of the birds doing their evening serenades. I enjoy talking with the neighbors if they happen to be outside. It’s also a great time to relax with my favorite book until dark forces me to take the book inside.

Then it’s time for pajamas and maybe some television if I am lucky enough to find something worth watching. And it’s snack time. Time for the goodies to come out. Popcorn, chips, or some chocolate make evenings my favorite time of the day.

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What’s your favorite time of day?
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What Drives Motivation During Retirement

L.M. Hosler

I am basically lazy. I am retired and enjoying retirement. I love getting up later, and not having to set an alarm clock. But if an opportunity to make money presents itself then I become motivated and work hard towards that end. In the past I have also been motivated by pursuing educational goals. I worked hard at them and achieved those goals. I managed to obtain a degree in accounting and a diploma in computer programming. Both have been helpful in different areas of my life.
I can also be motivated when it comes to having fun and doing things I enjoy. Going on vacation will motivate me and get me moving. A fun day at the beach excites me. Traveling to somewhere new encourages me to explore.

Each of us are motivated by different things. It would be quite interesting to hear to hear how others find motivation in their lives. Now, if anyone knows how to get me motivated about cleaning my house I would love to hear that advice.